Friday, April 25, 2025



The last time I saw cherry blossoms was in 2017 in Seoul. Spring there felt like a gentle excursion for the soul. I remember sitting quietly on a park bench in Yeouido Hangang Park, watching pale pink blossoms tremble in the breeze drifting across the Hangang River.
 
Koreans call cherry blossoms beotkkot (벚꽃), and that afternoon, the trees obliged by sending petals floating toward me—soft, weightless, and fleeting. I was deep in my K-drama phase then, and the slow cascade of petals instantly reminded me of springtime scenes from Hello, My Teacher, starring Gong Yoo and Gong Hyo-jin—still my personal gold standard for rom-com dramas.
 
The scent of pine trees from the park’s wooded section mingled with the sweetness of early spring flowers. The weather was perfect: cool enough for a cardigan, warm enough to linger. It was a Seoul-ful spring day—ideal for daydreaming or napping beneath a blossom-studded sky. If only that moment could be bottled.


🌸 From Beotkkot to Sakura

Cherry blossoms—sakura, or beotkkot—are Japan’s most cherished floral symbol and an enduring harbinger of spring. While the flowers bloom briefly everywhere, their cultural significance is best understood through hanami in Japan itself.

Earlier this year, during the first days of April, I traveled to Tokyo with a beloved college friend to experience this centuries-old tradition. Families, friends, and lovers gather beneath blooming trees to stroll, picnic, and quietly reflect on the fleeting nature of time.

The transient beauty of sakura has a way of opening old doors. As petals fell, we reminisced about university life—about youth, when energy came easily and diets were blissfully unmonitored. Much like that line from Taylor Swift's song 22, the spring of our lives held happiness, freedom, confusion, loneliness, misery, and magic all at once.

Now, as we edge toward 50—despite feeling eternally 22—it’s both humorous and sobering to admit we’re no longer spring chickens. Tokyo’s endless staircases and labyrinthine rail system made sure to remind us, gifting us random aches in hips and knees.

Still, I was grateful for the shared experience. Sakura has long symbolized friendship, and this trip carried an added layer of meaning. My friend was also searching for a childhood classmate named Sakura whom she hadn’t seen in 40 years, making the journey feel strangely providential.


🌧️ Tokyo’s Moody Spring

We arrived just in time for the predicted peak bloom—but Tokyo had other plans. Instead of postcard spring weather, we were greeted by kan no modori, Japan’s curious return of winter chill. Cold rain, gray skies, and single-digit temperatures lingered stubbornly.

Tokyoites weren’t donning pastel outfits. Instead, the city moved beneath a sea of transparent umbrellas, commuters eager to retreat home after long, demanding workdays. Yet even in the frenzy, Tokyo’s invisible order offered calm. There is something oddly meditative about standing shoulder-to-shoulder in a rush-hour train where everyone instinctively follows the rules.

We adapted quickly—layering up and purchasing our own ¥600 clear umbrellas from Family Mart to blend in seamlessly. These umbrellas proved essential when crossing Tokyo’s busy pedestrian lanes, where crowds can feel like organized chaos.

Chasing sakura, I reminded myself, is like chasing the Aurora Borealis. You show up, wait patiently, and hope nature grants you a fleeting miracle. Between the two, I would still choose sakura.






🌿 Rikugien: Poetry in the Rain

Weather limitations forced us to simplify our itinerary and focus on gardens. Instead of Koishikawa Korakuen, we chose Rikugien Gardens in Komagome—often considered Tokyo’s most beautiful traditional garden.

Built in the early 1700s for the fifth Tokugawa shogun, Rikugien is an Edo-period strolling garden inspired by classical waka poetry. Rain followed us through camellia-lined paths, moss-covered slopes, and ancient pines glistening with dew. Mist rose gently from the earth as raindrops traced ripples across the pond.

A crow’s cry broke the silence. Ducks paddled happily through the rain, their whistles unexpectedly cheerful. From nearly every angle, the garden felt like stepping into a Chinese ink-wash painting. The arched sori-bashi bridges connected views that stirred quiet emotions—contemplation, melancholy, transcendence.

We arrived too late to linger or enjoy tea at the Fukiagechaya teahouse, and the 5 PM closing felt abrupt. Still, I captured countless photos to revisit later, perhaps while writing haiku. My favorite discoveries were the garden’s hidden corners where pink camellias bloomed softly, almost shyly.

One shop I always look out for in train stations and malls is Aoyama Flower Market Tokyo. No matter the season, its floral arrangements are quietly captivating, and I almost always pause to admire the blooms. I was tempted to buy a simple greens-and-foliage mix, but this trip felt too short to linger. Still, I couldn’t help imagining how lovely it would be to adorn a hotel room with fresh flowers—an effortless touch of beauty and healing after a long day in the city. Next time I visit Japan, I’ve promised myself this small indulgence: a seasonal bouquet, chosen slowly and enjoyed without hurry.


🌸 Neighborhood Discoveries & River Walks

On the way, we stumbled upon Komagome Higashi, a small neighborhood park surrounded by clinics, apartments, and schools. With towering cherry trees, playgrounds, and whimsical stone paths, it felt like a quiet K-drama set—perfect for after-work conversations and unhurried moments.

Another highlight was our rainy walk along the Meguro River Cherry Blossom Promenade. Despite 7–8°C temperatures and persistent drizzle, visitors still gathered to admire the 800 Somei Yoshino trees lining the river. Cold and hungry, we retreated to a nearby Family Mart for bentos and snacks before briefly exploring Atre Meguro, a welcome indoor refuge.


🌸 A Perfect Finale in Ueno

On our final day, Tokyo finally softened. Gray skies gave way to blue, and temperatures rose to a comfortable 18°C. We hurried to Ueno Park, arriving early enough to avoid overwhelming crowds.

The sakura were luminous. Petals drifted gently in the breeze. Cardigan weather returned. Walking beneath those trees felt impossibly cozy and sweet—one of those moments you wish you could pause forever.

No wonder the Japanese treasure this tradition.

Spring in Japan may be moody and unpredictable, but its magic is undeniable. Here’s to many more sakura picnics in the future. 

Thank you, Tokyo. Until next time.

Arigatou gozaimasu. ありがとうございました 🌸


Wednesday, April 16, 2025




Chasing cherry blossoms in Ueno Park in Taito City, Tokyo led me to unexpectedly visit the National Museum of Western Art (NMWA), an architectural work of Le Corbusier, an outstanding contribution to the modern movement. The UNESCO World Heritage museum building is located at the expansive Ueno Imperial Grant Park which is home to the oldest zoo in Japan and six museums. The whirlwind tour of the permanent collection of NMWA is a culmination of a 4-day trip marked by Kan no Modori (brief return of winter chills in spring) which threatened to mar our quest to view cherry blossoms in their full, springtime splendor.  Thankfully, the rain was light and drizzly during the first 3 days when we arrived in Tokyo, averting the dreaded premature shedding of petals. 

On our last day in the city, Sakura trees were in full bloom, shining brightly against clear blue skies.  People milled under the trees gazing in awe at the ethereal beauty of the blossoms. Tokyoites came in droves, taking advantage of the bright sunny skies and delightfully crisp spring weather. Some laid out picnic blankets or enjoyed yakitori or Sakura flavored goodies from the food kiosks located in designated places in the park. I enjoyed a can of warm Boss coffee while I admired the shimmering trees.

We had a Narita Skyliner train to catch at 2PM so we made the most of our 3-hour stroll at Ueno Park. Upon exiting the gardens, we decided to visit the nearest museum instead of queuing at Ueno Zoo which will take us the whole day.  

We didn't have time to leisurely view the permanent and special exhibitions of NMWA, so we just opted to see the permanent collection instead. We had a good forty-minute tour of the collection which depicted works from artists like Renoir, Gaugin, Van Gogh, Cezanne, El Greco, Miro and Picasso among others. 

In time for the Lenten season, I lingered at the section that housed the museum's18th century religious paintings. For a more immersive experience, visitors were encouraged to scan a QR code. 

I would love to come back to Ueno Park and visit the rest of the five museums. For Sakura time in Tokyo, Ueno Park has it all! 




















 

Wednesday, March 19, 2025


Fans of vintage Americana and the 50's era will love Fads of 50's Diner and Museum located near Waterworld Park in Alta Tierra Village in Jaro District. Stepping inside, you will be delighted by the amazing display of vintage nostalgia ranging from Betty Boop, Coca-Cola, rare collectibles, pop culture kitsch as well as authentic diner cafe decor. If you want to momentarily escape to the most wonderful era ever, Fads of 50's will bring you there. Check out their retro-style cafe menu offerings for a taste of the good old times. Dine and drink retro style while listening to the hit songs of the 50's. 

Museum entrance fee is P70 while loyalty card holders have free entrance good for one year. Follow their Facebook page for updates and promotions.

Hang-out soon!























 FADS OF 50'S DINER & MUSEUM

Alta Tierra Village (near the entrance of Waterworld Iloilo)

Contact no:09985504562

Thursday, March 13, 2025



If you're an 80's kid,  you have probably watched The Princess Bride.
 
This movie remains to be one of my favorite movies from Rob Reiner, the same guy who directed the riotously hilarious movie This is Spinal Tap. I was thrilled that Cinema Exmundo at UP Visayas screened it on Valentine's Day. After all, what better way to celebrate Valentine's day than to re-watch the adventure filled journey of Westley, the swashbuckling farm boy and Buttercup, the beautiful damsel in distress. If you are fond of fantasy movies, you will enjoy how the movie satirizes the fairy tale genre and the happily ever after. Somehow, I still do believe in true love and how lovers destined for each other can ride off into the fiery, glowing sunset.

I love this movie so much that I have watched it on DVD an unhealthy number of times, to the point that I have memorized some the quotable lines.  The movie references sometimes seep into my writings and conversations. Any cult follower of this movie won't forget the quotes and satirical references such as, "As you wish," Inconceivable," The cliff of insanity", "I am Inigo Montoya. Prepare to die!" and all other inanities.
 
Thank you Cinema Exmundo for screening my favorite romantic movie!

Saturday, March 8, 2025


Recently, I have been inspired by the slice of life vlogs of women living alone in woodland cottages, tiny houses and apartments in picturesque places like Tokyo and Stockholm. In particular, Paola Merrill aka The Cottage Fairy  has been an absolute inspiration in my quest to create an outlook that romanticizes an otherwise boring life.

To begin with, romanticizing life does not require that you live in a charming Cotswolds cottage with Cath Kidston aesthetics. Wherever you are in the world, you can still find beauty in the hardest places and draw in courage, inspiration and optimism. 

For small city women like me, I believe it is possible to create and curate an inspired life that makes ordinary things more exciting than they really are. 

That being said, let me share my experience in romanticizing my daily life:

  • Pinterest has always been my happy place. I joined this platform when it was still in beta format. Through the years, I have collected beautiful and fanciful images shared by artists, writers and dreamers around the world. 
  • I enjoy decorating my office workspace with things that spark joy and motivation (thank you Mari Kondo). I try to fill it with inspiring quotes and interesting artwork to uplift my energy.
  • I have been enjoying the beauty of newly renovated plazas and squares in the city. I would go for a walk, sit on a bench and listen to my favorite playlists on Spotify. I try to tune out all that is chaotic in the world.
  • From childhood to adulthood, I have cultivated homely and old fashioned hobbies like sewing, crafting and making handmade gifts for friends and loved ones. I try to integrate these activities to weekday routines.
  • I get in touch with my inner plantita. After the pandemic, I continued to care for the  plants that I purchased. The thriving plants remind me of resiliency during tough, challenging times.  Watering my plants  in the evening is always a therapeutic experience.
  • I try to seek fellow romantics whom I share a  love for slow, mindful living. I am lucky to have friends who share my vision.
  • I love to explore art and historical periods that I gravitate towards. I have always been drawn to Jane Austen's regency world. 
  • I enjoy traveling and seeking authentic experiences that otherwise I may never experience in your own hometown or country. Have you been always inspired by Nordic or Japanese lifestyle? Maybe it's time to visit Copenhagen or Tokyo. I love Japan and I try to visit at least once or every two years.
  • Regardless of what's happening in the world, I try to see world through a soft, seasonal filter even if I live in the equator. In my own world, it will always be spring and autumn.

Thursday, March 6, 2025


There is a monthly pop-up farmer's market happening at West Visayas State University main campus every last Thursday and Friday of the month. Dubbed as "Kadiwa sa WVSU" this is a collaboration between the Department of Agriculture-Western Visayas and the university. This marketing platform shortens the agricultural supply chain while providing consumers the freshest produce at the best price.

Given the skyrocketing prices of basic food items (hello inflation!), this pop-up farmer's market is God sent. This mutually advantageous initiative gives university staff, students and the general public the opportunity to purchase fresh, healthy food while supporting local farmer cooperatives and entrepreneurs.
 
My market haul always consists of fresh shitake mushrooms, oyster mushrooms and assorted fresh vegetables that make weekend cooking fun!
 
QUICK FRESH OYSTER MUSHROOM SAUTE
 
Ingredients:
 
  • Fresh oyster mushrooms, shredded
  • 1 piece tomato, chopped
  • 1-2 tablespoons olive oil 
  • 1/2 cup broth
  • 1 piece small onion, diced
  • Minced garlic
  • Sprig of parsley
  • Dash of mushroom powder
  • Salt and pepper to taste
 
 Directions
 
1. Heat oil and saute onions and garlic. Add chopped tomato.
2.Add shredded oyster mushrooms. Saute for 2-3 minutes. Add 1/2 cup broth.
3. Cook mushrooms until soft and tender. Sprinkle a dsh of mushroom powder.
4. Remove from heat and add  salt/pepper to taste. 
4. Sprinkle and garnish with flat leaf parsley.
5. Serve with toast.
 



KADIWA SA WVSU POP-UP FARMER'S MARKET
Rizal Hall Grounds
West Visayas State University
Luna St, Lapaz, Iloilo City

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