Thursday, March 13, 2025



If you're an 80's kid,  you have probably watched The Princess Bride.
 
This movie remains to be one of my favorite movies from Rob Reiner, the same guy who directed the riotously hilarious movie This is Spinal Tap. I was thrilled that Cinema Exmundo at UP Visayas screened it on Valentine's Day. After all, what better way to celebrate Valentine's day than to re-watch the adventure filled journey of Westley, the swashbuckling farm boy and Buttercup, the beautiful damsel in distress. If you are fond of fantasy movies, you will enjoy how the movie satirizes the fairy tale genre and the happily ever after. Somehow, I still do believe in true love and how lovers destined for each other can ride off into the fiery, glowing sunset.

I love this movie so much that I have watched it on DVD an unhealthy number of times, to the point that I have memorized some the quotable lines.  The movie references sometimes seep into my writings and conversations. Any cult follower of this movie won't forget the quotes and satirical references such as, "As you wish," Inconceivable," The cliff of insanity", "I am Inigo Montoya. Prepare to die!" and all other inanities.
 
Thank you Cinema Exmundo for screening my favorite romantic movie!

Saturday, March 8, 2025


Recently, I have been inspired by the slice of life vlogs of women living alone in woodland cottages, tiny houses and apartments in picturesque places like Tokyo and Stockholm. In particular, Paola Merrill aka The Cottage Fairy  has been an absolute inspiration in my quest to create an outlook that romanticizes an otherwise boring life.

To begin with, romanticizing life does not require that you live in a charming Cotswolds cottage with Cath Kidston aesthetics. Wherever you are in the world, you can still find beauty in the hardest places and draw in courage, inspiration and optimism. 

For small city women like me, I believe it is possible to create and curate an inspired life that makes ordinary things more exciting than they really are. 

That being said, let me share my experience in romanticizing my daily life:

  • Pinterest has always been my happy place. I joined this platform when it was still in beta format. Through the years, I have collected beautiful and fanciful images shared by artists, writers and dreamers around the world. 
  • I enjoy decorating my office workspace with things that spark joy and motivation (thank you Mari Kondo). I try to fill it with inspiring quotes and interesting artwork to uplift my energy.
  • I have been enjoying the beauty of newly renovated plazas and squares in the city. I would go for a walk, sit on a bench and listen to my favorite playlists on Spotify. I try to tune out all that is chaotic in the world.
  • From childhood to adulthood, I have cultivated homely and old fashioned hobbies like sewing, crafting and making handmade gifts for friends and loved ones. I try to integrate these activities to weekday routines.
  • I get in touch with my inner plantita. After the pandemic, I continued to care for the  plants that I purchased. The thriving plants remind me of resiliency during tough, challenging times.  Watering my plants  in the evening is always a therapeutic experience.
  • I try to seek fellow romantics whom I share a  love for slow, mindful living. I am lucky to have friends who share my vision.
  • I love to explore art and historical periods that I gravitate towards. I have always been drawn to Jane Austen's regency world. 
  • I enjoy traveling and seeking authentic experiences that otherwise I may never experience in your own hometown or country. Have you been always inspired by Nordic or Japanese lifestyle? Maybe it's time to visit Copenhagen or Tokyo. I love Japan and I try to visit at least once or every two years.
  • Regardless of what's happening in the world, I try to see world through a soft, seasonal filter even if I live in the equator. In my own world, it will always be spring and autumn.

Thursday, March 6, 2025


There is a monthly pop-up farmer's market happening at West Visayas State University main campus every last Thursday and Friday of the month. Dubbed as "Kadiwa sa WVSU" this is a collaboration between the Department of Agriculture-Western Visayas and the university. This marketing platform shortens the agricultural supply chain while providing consumers the freshest produce at the best price.

Given the skyrocketing prices of basic food items (hello inflation!), this pop-up farmer's market is God sent. This mutually advantageous initiative gives university staff, students and the general public the opportunity to purchase fresh, healthy food while supporting local farmer cooperatives and entrepreneurs.
 
My market haul always consists of fresh shitake mushrooms, oyster mushrooms and assorted fresh vegetables that make weekend cooking fun!
 
QUICK FRESH OYSTER MUSHROOM SAUTE
 
Ingredients:
 
  • Fresh oyster mushrooms, shredded
  • 1 piece tomato, chopped
  • 1-2 tablespoons olive oil 
  • 1/2 cup broth
  • 1 piece small onion, diced
  • Minced garlic
  • Sprig of parsley
  • Dash of mushroom powder
  • Salt and pepper to taste
 
 Directions
 
1. Heat oil and saute onions and garlic. Add chopped tomato.
2.Add shredded oyster mushrooms. Saute for 2-3 minutes. Add 1/2 cup broth.
3. Cook mushrooms until soft and tender. Sprinkle a dsh of mushroom powder.
4. Remove from heat and add  salt/pepper to taste. 
4. Sprinkle and garnish with flat leaf parsley.
5. Serve with toast.
 



KADIWA SA WVSU POP-UP FARMER'S MARKET
Rizal Hall Grounds
West Visayas State University
Luna St, Lapaz, Iloilo City

Saturday, February 15, 2025


It has been a catastic week! My cat Biscuit gave birth to 3 healthy kittens (didn't know she was preggy all along); my friend Ava sent me a box of cat themed handmade goodies (thank you so much!);  baked cat shaped Victorian sugar cookies and enjoyed the 80's hit movie "The Princess Bride" at Cinema Exmundo. It's always a joy to see (and feed) the charming cats of UP Visayas when I drop by my high school/graduate school alma mater.

Have a lovely Caturday!




Wednesday, February 12, 2025


I can't believe that I'll be turning half a century next year. Any Gen-X woman who has lived through the halcyon days of the 80's and 90's is probably amazed at how fast time flies. We definitely have come a long way since the days of black and white TV, Flinstone chewable vitamins, Rainbow Brite and rotary landline phones. Now that the retirement years seem visible on the horizon (eek!), I can't help but wonder where the pursuit of life, liberty and happiness has taken me. Maybe it’s time to calibrate my happiness meter.

Despite the pesky patches of grey hair that graze my hairline and occasional knee pain that jolts me as I alight from a bus commute, I come upon the realization that the meaning of happiness takes on a different shape when one grows older. I have become a version of my grandma who was known for loving the shallow pond of happiness (mababa ang kaligayahan). 

I'm out of the rat race and just living life on my own terms. Hence, I no longer see any sense in becoming happy only when certain conditions are present--when I get that dream vacation or when I purchase that fancy, big ticket item. Happiness doesn't have to cost much, or it can even be free. 

The joy in mundane things. This is the small but certain happiness that Haruki Murakami describes in his collection of essays, Afternoon in the Islets of Langerhans. Happiness is a pile of freshly ironed laundry or an ice-cold pitcher of Cherry Kool-aid. Happiness is being able to pay your bills on time. Happiness is a cat fed on time. 

Until then, may happiness, small and big find you when you least expect it.

Wednesday, February 5, 2025

The new year is all about manifesting and living a healthier lifestyle and embracing the medicinal power of clean eating. In a world dominated by fast, inflammatory foods, it is necessary to rethink our diet choices if we want a healthier and more resilient body and mind many years down the road.  It's not too late to eat healthy. Get inspiration from my Manila based college bestie who was able to heal her body through the power of plant-based eating. Read on and enjoy this guest post! Happy and healthy new year everyone!

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by Ava the Gardener

When my niece said she was going to stay with us for a week to give eating healthy a try, my husband and I welcomed her with open arms. Little did she know, however, that there was more to our daily regimen than eating plants.  

An incoming college junior, the first lesson we taught her is that food is the body’s fuel. It provides the body with the energy it needs to function. Without food, the body cannot regenerate cells, synthesize hormones, produce antibodies or enzymes, and everything else it does to keep us alive. Our bodies convert any food we eat into sugar, combining it with water and oxygen to transform it into the energy we need to breathe, regulate our heartbeat, digest our food, and function. The pancreas then secretes insulin to control the absorption and release of sugar. Any excess sugar that overburdens the pancreas is stored as fat either in our liver or beneath the skin around our bodies.

Her second lesson is that the closer food is to its natural state, the greater the likelihood it is a complex carbohydrate. Our bodies work harder to digest the chemical structure and fibers in complex carbohydrates and the energy from such food is released over a longer period of time. Natural and whole foods like fresh vegetables have higher water, fiber, and nutrient contents. They also have lower glycemic indexes, which naturally stimulate our metabolism and make us feel full with lesser calories. The Glycemic Index (GI) is a measure of how much a particular food raises our blood sugar levels once our bodies absorb it.



Simple carbohydrates, meanwhile, are composed of smaller sugar molecules that our bodies quickly absorb. They come from processed food that have been stripped of their natural nutrients and fiber. Though edible, they are low in fiber and nutrients yet have high glycemic indexes, which results in higher blood sugar levels that make us feel tired. If not used immediately, the sugar from these empty calories is converted into fat.

Complex carbohydrates provide a slower and more sustained release of energy, thus contributing to long-term health, appetite control, and sustained energy levels. This understanding is necessary in applying the third lesson: preparing and eating meals from fresh vegetables, whole grains, nuts, seeds, and legumes— similar to those our Filipino ancestors ate—to combat obesity, diabetes, and decrease the chance of chronic illness.

Even with my niece asleep on the sofa, my husband and I kept the daily rhythm of our lives. We woke up at 4:30 am to pray the rosary and novena for the dead before preparing breakfast. I bought fresh produce from the wet market after 6:00 am mass while my husband walked the dogs around the neighborhood. We would then have breakfast together before he left for work. Of her own volition, my niece quickly adapted to our schedule. She particularly enjoyed walking her canine cousins and meeting their friends.

For breakfast on weekdays, we would prepare something quick yet filling like avocado on wholegrain toast. We also made scrambled omelette from chickpea flour, often sauteed with garlic, onion, tomato, and mushroom. Sometimes we had wholegrain oats, muesli, and nuts. We also made French toast and pancakes from the same chickpea batter. Rice meals during breakfast were served on weekends or on any day that we knew would be particularly hectic. On such days unpolished rice was made into champorado with unsweetened chocolate or sinangag that was paired with a chickpea scramble, store-bought vegan sausage, or a tomato bean stew. At breakfast, my niece chose from several unsweetened warm beverages: brewed coffee, hot chocolate made with tablea, or rice coffee “kapeng bigas” (unpolished rice dry roasted in a pan).

“I learned that I can live without meat and sweets, but not without coffee,” she says.

Except for my husband who usually had a packed lunch, my niece and I seldom ate at noon, engrossed as we were in household chores, working from home, writing, reading, or drawing. We kept breakfast light and fasted for lunch, but dinner was usually a feast centered around eat-all-you-can servings of unpolished rice and vegetables. Preparing for dinner usually began as early as 4:00 pm, when unpolished rice was left to soak while the vegetables bought from the market that morning were washed, peeled, sliced, and diced. To keep the body in balance, dishes constituting different fresh vegetables—sprouts, fruit vegetables, leafy greens, root crops, and beans—should be eaten at each meal to strengthen the body’s major organs.

For instance, to strengthen the weak lungs that my niece has struggled with since birth, we fed her beans by cooking monggo, French beans with carrots and mushrooms, or kalabasa with sigarilyas simmered in coconut cream. “I can eat tokwa every day, I like it even if it’s not fried,” she says. Though beans are a daily staple in our household, neither my husband or I have gout. My niece was also able to walk the dogs daily despite eating beans often. The digestion of beans leads to uric acid buildup in joints only in the presence of excess animal protein and sugar.

When my niece decided to extend her stay for another ten days, my husband and I secretly wept for joy. She has kept in touch and continues to cook and eat healthy upon her return to university, with her landlady and housemates serving as eager guinea pigs for her kitchen experiments: tofu sisig, stir-fried togue with tokwa, beans, and carrots; sauteed vegetables with mushrooms; soy-garlic tofu sandwich with tomato, onions, and cucumber;  kalabasa-kamote mac and cheese.

“They all say my cooking tastes good,” she says.

Her staycation with us has led my niece to discover for herself that beyond serving as fuel for the body, creating healthy home-cooked meals is a sharing of self with family of one’s choosing.   


 

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Ava and her husband have kept the daily practice of cooking and eating local whole grains and vegetables for the past sixteen years. She learned how to do so at the Kitchen Klinik to manage Stevens-Johnson’s Syndrome, a rare autoimmune disorder she was diagnosed with in 2009. Ava’s dissertation on the successful use of plant-based food as medicine received a Highest Distinction merit and earned her a Ph.D. in Applied Cosmic Anthropology.

Sunday, January 26, 2025




Start the new year  and the lunar new year on a sweet note with these freebies from HP Printables. There are calendars and planners to help you hit your goals for a healthier body and tidier home.  There is also a great selection of wall art to keep your office cubicle looking inspired and spiffy.

Ready, print, go!
















 

Monday, January 6, 2025

Happy New Year! Let's start 2025 on a cool note with smooth grooves and cozy lo-fi music from my favorite YouTube playlist channel Take your Time .
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